"Letting go of someone dear to you is hard, but holding on to someone who doesn't feel the same is much harder...." T_T
When I hear from someone who is going through a romantic breakup, my heart truly breaks for them. Someone they loved is no longer theirs to love and the sadness in their words tells of, not only heartbreak, but a loss of self as well. And this is the very reason why I’ve come up with this article on how to cope with Relationship break up and ultimately Move on. HERE ARE FIVE (5) STEPS THAT YOU CAN DO IN CASE YOU ARE INTO THIS KIND OF AWKWARD SITUATION:
1. FIRST THINGS FIRST. Whatever you do, don't let thoughts of making this person jealous, or thoughts of bitterness enter into your mind. You're much better than that! Just keep saying, "I'm moving on." Pretty soon, you will have done just that. Never underestimate the power of Words. Here’s a little experiment to prove my point..… Try telling yourself that you will not succeed and most likely it will happen….Haven’t you noticed that? Be careful with your WORDS because it is so powerful that it creates YOUR REALITY in the future.
2. HAVE THE PROPER MINDSET.. ACCEPT THAT THE RELATIONSHIP IS ALL OVER. Learn the lessons behind it instead. And to wrap things up between you and your ex bf/gf, forgive her/him for what happened. More importantly, you should forgive yourself. This is the way to go. You should FORGIVE for selfish reasons. Removing the “excess baggage” in your heart is literally good for the heart. You also need to unload in order to welcome your NEW LIFE with a more positive aura. Otherwise, you’ll always look clumsy and miserable. In which case, you’ll have difficulty in moving on and get back to your old jolly lovable self. Here’s something that you might want to know: If you project an image of “Abundance (for love), everybody will want to take part of it and who knows… that includes your ex. However if you project an image of “Scarcity (for Love), everyone will shy away from you. WHY? Bcoz THAT’S THE LAW OF ATTRACTION. It’s a natural law and it contains universal truths similar to the LAW OF GRAVITY.. You defy it and you destroy “the order of the universe”.. or to be specific, you destroy your chance of moving on.. ultimately you destroy yourself.. J
3. GET RID OF ALL THOSE SENTIMENTAL ITEMS. And this means deleting his number from your cell phone, throwing out the pictures of you two together, blocking him from your social networking site accounts. Don’t torture yourself with constant reminders. Keep those will only serve to put you in state of prolonged nostalgia. And it’s not going to help you attain your objective.
CLICK HERE TO READ THE REST OF THE ARTICLE
When I hear from someone who is going through a romantic breakup, my heart truly breaks for them. Someone they loved is no longer theirs to love and the sadness in their words tells of, not only heartbreak, but a loss of self as well. And this is the very reason why I’ve come up with this article on how to cope with Relationship break up and ultimately Move on. HERE ARE FIVE (5) STEPS THAT YOU CAN DO IN CASE YOU ARE INTO THIS KIND OF AWKWARD SITUATION:
1. FIRST THINGS FIRST. Whatever you do, don't let thoughts of making this person jealous, or thoughts of bitterness enter into your mind. You're much better than that! Just keep saying, "I'm moving on." Pretty soon, you will have done just that. Never underestimate the power of Words. Here’s a little experiment to prove my point..… Try telling yourself that you will not succeed and most likely it will happen….Haven’t you noticed that? Be careful with your WORDS because it is so powerful that it creates YOUR REALITY in the future.
2. HAVE THE PROPER MINDSET.. ACCEPT THAT THE RELATIONSHIP IS ALL OVER. Learn the lessons behind it instead. And to wrap things up between you and your ex bf/gf, forgive her/him for what happened. More importantly, you should forgive yourself. This is the way to go. You should FORGIVE for selfish reasons. Removing the “excess baggage” in your heart is literally good for the heart. You also need to unload in order to welcome your NEW LIFE with a more positive aura. Otherwise, you’ll always look clumsy and miserable. In which case, you’ll have difficulty in moving on and get back to your old jolly lovable self. Here’s something that you might want to know: If you project an image of “Abundance (for love), everybody will want to take part of it and who knows… that includes your ex. However if you project an image of “Scarcity (for Love), everyone will shy away from you. WHY? Bcoz THAT’S THE LAW OF ATTRACTION. It’s a natural law and it contains universal truths similar to the LAW OF GRAVITY.. You defy it and you destroy “the order of the universe”.. or to be specific, you destroy your chance of moving on.. ultimately you destroy yourself.. J
3. GET RID OF ALL THOSE SENTIMENTAL ITEMS. And this means deleting his number from your cell phone, throwing out the pictures of you two together, blocking him from your social networking site accounts. Don’t torture yourself with constant reminders. Keep those will only serve to put you in state of prolonged nostalgia. And it’s not going to help you attain your objective.
CLICK HERE TO READ THE REST OF THE ARTICLE